Love is a bright and wonderful feeling, it is it that helps a person cope with difficulties and be constantly in high spirits. But anything happens in life, and if love is not mutual, then it only brings disappointment.
How to understand that a girl does not love you? There are many ways that will give you an accurate answer, because it is better to know for sure right away than to indulge yourself with illusions.
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If you have already started dating, then this is a clear sign that the girl likes you. You can date, but can it be called love?
If a girl says the word “love” to you, but you don’t feel it, there is reason to think.
How to know that a girl does not love you, but is just dating? A few signs that the girl is not in love:
- she spends very little time with you, although her studies / work allows her to pay attention to you more often;
- phone calls last no more than five minutes, as she does not know what to talk about with you;
- at telephone conversation or at a meeting she is more silent than tells;
- asks how you are doing, but after hearing the answer, he is no longer interested in anything.
If you recognized the behavior of your girlfriend in this list, then there are only two options:
- if you just started dating, then there will be some awkwardness and embarrassment, so this does not mean that the girl does not have bright and sincere feelings for you;
- you have known each other for quite some time, but there is still an awkward silence, and the girl behaves as described above - she does not love you.
By what signs can you understand that a girl has stopped loving you?
How to understand that a girl fell out of love with you? You have been together for a long time, and it began to seem to you that something has changed in relation to you? She became more indifferent, began to devote more time to her girlfriends and hobbies, and put you on the back burner? Do you fight more often and see each other less often? Now more. How to understand that a girl fell out of love with you:
- her interests and affairs have become more important than yours;
- she stopped smiling often, stopped calling you for a walk;
- if you need help, then she will not have time to help, since she has a lot of urgent things to do;
- she is no longer interested in your interests and hobbies, and does not talk about hers;
- "dry" communication - the girl stopped caring and paying attention to you.
There are many polls on how to understand that a girl does not love you. The test shows accurate data if you answer all questions honestly, without trying to justify the actions of a girlfriend.
If you indicate incorrect answers (meaning that you will soften her behavior with various circumstances and answer the questions as you want, and not as you really are), then, accordingly, the test result will be incorrect.
Signs that love has passed:
- your chosen one has a lot of free time, but does not want to spend it with you, because she has more important things to do than pay attention to a loved one;
- her phrases and questions have become similar to "on duty", because she asks them out of politeness, and not out of sincere interest;
- she got secrets from you that aren't petty, like her lipstick worth much more than she told you;
- she may have a new hobby on a social network ( new friend male), which she, of course, will not say;
- she stopped preening before dates, she doesn’t care how she looks and how you look;
- calls and messages from her became much less frequent, most likely, she stopped writing and calling first at all;
- in the evening she is already trying to go for a walk without you, but with her girlfriends;
- she very often wants you to leave her alone, as she needs to be alone;
- she is constantly looking for a reason to quarrel, finds fault with trifles and does not compromise.
How to understand that a girl fell out of love with you? Signs, as you can see, can be varied. But in no case should they be confused with the fact that passion has simply subsided. This happens when you have been together for a long time, you are used to each other, and it seems that you have nothing more to give to each other.
The above points will indicate how you can understand that a girl has fallen out of love. But you can always try to bring back the fire in a relationship if it's not too late.
If this is your new relationship, then you just need to be yourself. But there are some tricks that you should use, to the point of unconsciousness:
- Smile more often, try to joke as much as possible. Girls are very fond of funny guys.
- Give sincere compliments. Try to emphasize her beauty, her intelligence and character traits. But do it gently and not too often.
- Notice the little things: a new dress, a hairstyle, a manicure. If you notice the little things, girls appreciate it.
Remember that women love funny people only at the beginning of a relationship. In order not to wonder in the future how to understand that a girl does not love you, you need to work on yourself and achieve some goals in life, it becomes serious and responsible.
It has long been known that girls love with their "ears". It doesn't matter if you've met real life or not, it is quite easy to make a girl fall in love with you with the help of messages. Girls need sincerity, support, attention and beautiful words. If you can give her all this, very soon you will see that she began to treat you in a completely different way. Tenderness, affection and care - that's what you really need. Even through messages, you can convey your attitude towards a person, the main thing is to find the right approach.
Do you clearly understand that something has changed for the worse in your relationship, but have not yet understood what exactly? Maybe, boy, she wants to piss you off. But maybe you're just too receptive.
How to understand that a girl wants to leave for a long time and not fall for the bait of her dubious guesses - I will tell you about this now ...
TOP 9 Alarming symptoms of a dating couple
An omen of a future break is manifested in standard actions. They are clearly visible before parting, but many do not pay attention.
The main thing is to understand in time that feelings have cooled down, your choice is to correct or allow separation. Symptom #1. You are rarely alone
- If earlier you often went to the cinema together, for a walk, or just spent a lot of time alone, and now you meet only with friends, it is most likely that the girl does not want to be with you.
- You can offer her to go for a walk together, and she will bring her girlfriend.
- To your offer to go on a romantic picnic, she will answer that it is better to go to drink beer with friends, etc. Yes, something is clearly wrong here.
- She does not want to be alone with you, which means that she is no longer so pleased with your presence, she does not want kisses and hugs. She will leave you soon!
Symptom #2. You no longer know about her dreams and plans
If earlier she told you about her dreams, shared the most intimate with you, and now the girl does not want to communicate with you and does not tell anything, a tragic moment will soon come in your relationship.
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It is felt right away - it will just blow cold from her, she will move away and stop trusting you.
Symptom #3. "Actively looking"
If earlier it was written on her VK page that she was dating you, and now something like “Single” appeared or the status simply disappeared, this is another alarming symptom.
Girls rarely immediately put the status “In active search”, they often make a more tricky move - change it to neutral.
Symptom #4. Don't hug, don't kiss...
This means that the lady is not pleasant intimacy with you. Think about it if she no longer holds your hand, avoids kisses and hugs. If she does not want physical contact or more, you notice that this is unpleasant for her - she is no longer interested in you.
Symptom #5. She makes you angry on purpose
Creation girls are weak and not only physically, but also mentally. And parting with a guy is very difficult. At such moments, girls often do everything so that the guy leaves them himself. That is, they begin to behave defiantly, humiliate a man in public, show signs of attention to other guys in front of their boyfriend, dress frankly, constantly provoke scandals, and much more.
Listen to your intuition! If she tells you that your girlfriend suddenly blew off the tower for a reason, she may be waiting for you to run out of patience and leave her.
Symptom #6. Everything annoys her
You call her, it makes her angry. You call her a bunny - she suddenly begins to think that this is the most stupid name. Hugging the wrong way, kissing like a fool, etc.
Unreasonable irritability, of course, can be a sign of critical days, but it can also say that you just piss off the girl and she doesn’t know how to get rid of you.
Symptom #7. She remembered old friends and started walking without you
Suddenly, her old friends appeared, trips to the club resumed, drinking, parties in which you could not find a place? Or maybe your girlfriend does not even tell you where she will spend the evening today, she lies and does not finish speaking?
She has almost cut you out of her life and is looking for a new candidate, or wants to take a break from the relationship.
Symptom #8. Hooks on boys in front of you
Is she no longer shy about showing signs of attention to other men in front of you? She casually touches others, dances with them, flirts. By then, she had almost crossed you off her list. Get ahead of her - drop her first.
BUT: if you recently fought because of her jealousy, if it seemed to her that you were showing interest in some girl, perhaps she just wants to teach you a lesson in this way.
Symptom #9. She humiliates you in front of others
If your girlfriend starts comparing you with the guys from your company in front of everyone. If she says to the public that “you are not as strong as Dima”, “and you would be so weak, you couldn’t”, she compares you and you clearly lose in her eyes.
A loving girl will not humiliate her beloved in front of others (unless, of course, she is a bitch).
Deceptive signs of an impending breakup
Women's psychology is a very complex thing. Sometimes, even women themselves can not understand themselves. That is why I do not advise you to believe one hundred percent in the list of signs of an impending breakup.
Many symptoms are suitable for a girl who was about to leave you, but mostly they appear in those who did not even think about parting.
Sign #1. She doesn't write 30 letters an hour
Previously, she constantly called, wrote you romantic messages on VK, threw videos with cute cats and woke you up with her call in the morning? Is it really over after 3 months of your relationship?
You don't have to worry too much, it's completely normal. The euphoria from a new relationship sooner or later passes and communication becomes habitual. Stormy passions are left behind, and calm romantic evenings become the norm. That is why she may gradually stop calling and texting you so often. Her mind will again be taken over by studies, some interests and everything that she loved before. You will become simply the most valuable addition to her life.
Anxiety: but if, and her phone is often turned off or she simply doesn’t pick up the phone for a long time, think about it. She constantly does not have time to talk, your calls annoy her, and she herself practically does not call or write - yes, this is where she wants to leave you.
But do not panic - ask about the reasons for this behavior. Perhaps she is really busy or she has some problems.
Sign #2. She doesn't want to have sex with you anymore.
At first, you just didn't get out of bed, had a very hectic sex life, and now you can't get her into bed? Does she have a constant headache, is she tired or something? Then the case "smells fried." This can be considered a sign that she is no longer physically interested in you and you need to look for a reason to meet ...
But there is another side of the coin. Are you having sex, but not as often as you would like, and you suspect something? Postpone the panic, because the reason for this may be not only the desire to leave.
She may not have wanted to have sex 8 times a night before, but at first she did not want to offend you or seem like a passive, non-passionate girl. That is why she easily made concessions to you, always agreed and was more proactive. And now, when you became very close, began to trust each other and your relationship moved to a new level - she simply stopped seeing the need for this pretense.
Over time, any relationship loses its ardor and passion.
Listen when she speaks and when she is silent
Yes, yes, you did not think - to hear her silence. Do quarrels, long conversations and showdowns bother you? Is that why you think you're on the verge of breaking up? No - if she tries to talk to you, if she conveys some of her feelings to you and talks about grievances, then everything is not so bad with you.
When a girl talks and cries, she's just trying to keep what you have. She thus solves problems that you may not see and tries to say that she is ill. She is waiting for an answer and some changes. And while she does this, she loves you.
But if she shuts up, it's not good. No, if everything is fine and smooth for you, then it's okay. But if yesterday you were cursing, hysterical and still didn’t decide anything, and today she’s just coldly silent about it, looking condescendingly at you, it’s better to talk about it first.
When a girl is indifferent to problems in a couple, it means that she either fell out of love or harbored a great resentment, which she simply does not see a way out.
Let her tell you herself
You are man. Therefore, do not wait until the moment when she decides to leave and leaves you with nothing. Just talk to her and find out what she's up to. After all, she can lead you by the nose for months, and then also change with one of your friends.
You need to do one thing: in a calm environment, just ask a direct question: “I see that something is happening. Tell me honestly, do you want to break up with me? That's all !
If you have a chance to save the relationship, she will definitely start talking about what does not suit her. And if she made a decision for herself a long time ago, you will make her task easier and you will be able to quickly move away from the situation yourself.
Initially, you need to figure out why the girl is losing interest, and then solve the problem:
Always consider the female vision of the issue:
Your friend says that his girlfriend is behaving in some unusual way. To the question “what happened?” she replies “nothing”, and the guy is convinced that there is no cause for concern. But the authors of (life)buzz would say that the guy has problems and very serious ones.
1. Excellent. This is the last argument of a woman in any dispute. This is the most convincing female argument, after which it is better for any man to shut up. When you hear "great" from your friend's mouth, know that you'd better not say another word!
2. Nothing. You see that your girlfriend is behaving differently than usual. You ask, "Honey, what's wrong"? In response, you hear: "Nothing." No matter how! If a girl says “nothing happened”, then something really happened. Often in a dispute, women's arguments begin with “nothing” and end with “excellent”. If this is your case, go back to point 1.
Important clarification: if a girl says “no, nothing really happened”, you can breathe a sigh of relief: this means that nothing really happened.
3. Deep breath. This is a non-verbal hint that you are an idiot, and your girlfriend can’t understand why you are wasting her and your time trying to figure out “nothing”. If you see and hear a deep breath, see point 2.
4. Go! Do you think they gave you the green light? Oh, how wrong you are! The phrase "Forward!" from the lips of your girlfriend - this is certainly not permission. It's more of a double challenge. With his “Forward!” she is just kindly giving you another chance to make the “really good decision”. Therefore, think again about whether it is really worth doing what you were going to do and what you were allegedly given the green light for!
5. Don't worry, I'll deal with it myself. This means that the girl asked you to do something several times and, since she did not wait for a reaction, she does it herself. Such a situation, you can be sure, will continue with the phrase “what happened?”, followed by the answer “nothing!” So, most likely, you will again have to return to point 2.
6. Everything is fine. This is one of the most dangerous warning signals. Your girlfriend will think long and hard about what your retribution will be for what you did.
7. Five minutes. If you are watching a football match, you can be sure that 5 minutes before the end of the half will last no more than 300 seconds. If you are waiting for a girl who said that it will take her 5 minutes to get ready, this means that you will have to wait at least 15-40 minutes.
8. I don't care! This phrase is a kind of synonym for the phrase “to hell with you!”. This phrase is a clear sign that you are in big trouble!
9. Thank you! An unreasonable “thank you” with an angry undertone is not gratitude at all. It is better to overcome the temptation to ask “why?” and just say “please!” If the girl says Thank you very much!”, it is better to do without even “please”. Otherwise, the dialogue will end with the phrase “I don’t care!” If this happens, see point 8.
Well, you are familiar with the basic rules. Now a little test for fixing. What does your girlfriend's phrase mean: “Nothing happened, honey, everything is fine! Go ahead, watch football for another five minutes and don't worry, I'll deal with it myself. I'll take out the trash myself."
The fair sex is hard to understand. Some girls hide their feelings under the guise of indifference, while others confess their love because of commercialism, although they don’t feel anything. Secret signs that a girl truly loves you.
Everyone wants to find love for themselves, but how to recognize it and will it be real? Modest girls like to be mysterious and hide love from a man, although they have sunk a long time. And mercantile girls confess their feelings, although they do not love, but are simply looking for a profitable party. How do you know if a girl truly loves you or not?
1. A girl loves if there are no secrets for her.
The girl asks a lot of questions and wants to know absolutely everything. What is your favorite band, the amount of sugar in your coffee, what was your childhood name, what are you doing tomorrow and do you like fishing? If a girl is interested in all this, then you are the most important part in her life. The girl also talks about herself. All women's secrets, dreams, doubts and emotions. It's like love.
2. A girl loves it if she cuddles up to you.
The girl can't resist getting a bit of tenderness from you and giving her in return. Girlfriend likes to walk hand in hand, hugging, kissing, fooling around and touching 1000 different ways. She happily jumps into bed and takes off her panties as soon as you call, and does not try to sell sex in exchange for goodies.
3. A girl loves if she is jealous
When some woman appears next to her man, the girl becomes jealous. This does not mean that she rushes to pull out her hair from the root. The girl is rather a little excited and dissatisfied. Jealous means love.
4. A girl loves if she gives all the time
The girl wants to meet as often as possible, and does not make one or two regular dates a week. She rearranges her schedule and is released from business if a man called her for a walk. In her organizer, you are a priority.
5. A girl likes to be attentive to small things.
A girlfriend gives cards, sends ridiculous messages, arranges surprises, sings songs to you, writes notes, helps in various matters and cares. A girl loves for real, if she is attentive in small things.
6. A girl loves if she compliments
Does the girl praise and compliment with enviable regularity? You are very nice to her, and she is your biggest fan. That's why she likes your new jacket, your ability to play the guitar, your hair and everything else.
7. A girl loves if she "sees" only you.
You can be in a crowd, but be only the two of you. A girl loves if she focuses all her attention on you, and does not wander her eyes out of boredom or out of curiosity.
8. A girl loves if she wants to get to know your surroundings.
The girl wants to get to know your inner circle: friends and relatives. She makes an effort to please and seeks approval. In addition, she introduced you to her girlfriends, and maybe even her family.
9. A girl loves if her body says so.
Body language is very difficult to hide and hard to control. The girl shows with her whole body that she adores and loves you. She runs to the meeting as soon as she sees you. Her eyes are burning, her face is shining, and the smile does not leave her face. When a girl loves, she shines when her man is near.
10. A girl loves it if she says it spontaneously.
A loving person cannot hold back the words of love in some pleasant moments and tides of tenderness. The girl confesses her love spontaneously, getting lost in words and worried. It's definitely love.
Do these 10 signs match? The girl really loves you...
