Weddings are very different, from chic and stunning in their scale celebrations, to modest family and discreet events. Marriage can be customized for any wishes and financial possibilities, but it must be taken into account that a significant day should touch the hearts of the newlyweds and their guests. A wedding script will help create the right atmosphere.

A wedding without a script risks turning into an endless and boring feast with family and friends. Contests and various plot twists are important precisely because they do not let guests get bored. People who do not know each other get to know each other in the process various games and relay.

If the wedding is designed for a small number of guests (from 10 to 30), then the presence of a toastmaster is optional.

Who to entrust the preparation of the script and holding?

• The most organically in the role of leaders will look witness and witness. They, as close associates of the newlyweds, will be able to write a script in tandem with the bride and groom, and then beat him at the wedding;
• If at the wedding for the most part there will be people of adults and advanced years, you can entrust the holding of the event parents of a new family. Well, the script can be found on the Internet and corrected according to your personal wishes;
• If you do not want to involve guests in organizing a wedding, invite friend from the side. In fact, he will take on the role of toastmaster, but he will not have to pay money (payment can be arranged by holding paid contests, from which your presenter will take the money for himself).

At home or in a restaurant?

Conduct beautiful wedding It can be done both in a restaurant and at home. But a homemade feast will cost much less than finding and booking a hall, paying for a buffet and the work of attendants.

wedding at home

Pros:

• saving money;
• the ability to adapt to any situation (including quickly wash White dress with a wine stain, sew up the unexpectedly torn pants of a witness and find props for the contest);
• the ability to send "overdone" guests to sleep in the next room;
• no need to go home after a tiring but happy day, taking numerous gifts with you.

Minuses:

• "simplicity" and lack of entourage;
• the monotony of wedding photos (the home environment is not conducive to luxurious photo shoots);
• the likelihood that in the process of stormy fun the interior of the apartment can be seriously damaged;
• lack of space;
• self-service.

wedding in a restaurant

Pros:

Minuses:

• serious spending;
• limited actions (all problems and tasks will have to be solved on the spot, with the help of improvised means);
• the need to return home with "luggage" of gifts, alcoholic beverages, etc.

As you can see, both options have their pros and cons. However, a good scenario for a wedding without a toastmaster for the closest will compensate for any shortcomings and help people relax.

Scenario

Before writing a script, choose the direction in which you will move. It could be:

The basis for creating your script you can take the classic plan for wedding celebrations.

1. bride and groom meet with a caravan, and the mother-in-law sprinkles the young couple with millet. Then the newlyweds are seated in a specially designated place and the parents give a parting speech (opening words prepared in advance). Then the word is passed to relatives and friends of the newly-made family.
2. After all the invitees have drunk a couple of glasses and the first toasts have been made, you can proceed to competitive program. Active games diluted with board games. Relay races are held in between meals and congratulatory words (if guests express a desire to make a toast). Leading events, focusing on the mood of people, can announce musical breaks (disco).
3. First dance of the bride and groom is announced when the guests have drunk no more than 3-5 glasses of alcohol. It is very important to correctly bring the script to this touching moment. For example, a musical gift from parents may be presented before the dance, and beautiful poems may be read by close family friends.
4. Toward the end of the festive evening, it is announced disco and group games(for example, boys against girls). ALL guests must be involved in the final competitions. The scenario of a home wedding without a toastmaster can be planned without a disco, replacing it with karaoke singing or dance mini-competitions.
5. After cutting wedding cake or loaf. Parents conduct a rite of farewell to the bachelor life for children. Mothers remove the veil from the bride and “hand over” the young wife into the reliable hands of her husband. A beautiful point will be the ignition wedding candle which symbolizes the birth new family.

Suitable competitions, mobile and table

The scenario of a wedding without a toastmaster in a narrow circle can be "seasoned" with the most bold and unusual contests, which guests warmed up by alcohol will take with a bang.

Kiss-darling

Pairs consisting of girls and guys (at least 6 pairs) are called to the center of the hall. Then the representatives of the stronger sex are offered to kiss their partners, voicing the places for the kiss.

For example, "I will kiss Marina on the cheek." It is impossible to repeat, which complicates the task for the following applicants.

The losers are those who did not find a place for a kiss.

heart gift

Couples again participate in the competition. Men write on a piece of paper what they plan to give to their companion. And women, not suspecting what they are going to give, tell how they will use the gift. This is enough fun competition, because in the process, girls can dress up for a holiday in a new frying pan or hang new earrings on the wall.

inflatable tango

Several people go to the center of the hall and randomly split into pairs. On a signal (when the music starts), the people who are in a pair should join in a passionate dance, holding the inflated balls between their stomachs. Those who burst the balloon the fastest, while performing the original dance, will win.

Walls have ears too

This competition can be held to raise money. The hosts prepare facts about the bride and groom in advance, and the guests need to guess whether the named facts are true or false. Whoever makes a mistake pays a "tax".

my beloved

You can take any number of people to the competition. Everyone is invited to name the most beautiful part of the body of a person standing next to them. When everyone in a circle voices their own version for the neighbor on the left, the host announces that now the “place they like” needs to be kissed.

young mother

Prepare for the competition plastic bottles and nipples that are put on bottles.

As a "feeding" you can use sprite, cola or fanta.

The winners will be those who drink the contents of the bottle more accurately and quickly.

guessing game

Several men are seated on chairs. The bride, blindfolded, is brought to the participants of the competition. She must find her betrothed, feeling only the noses of the guys.

Knot for good luck

Several couples are selected from those who wish. The united guys and girls are placed shoulder to shoulder and tied with their touching hands. Next, the contestants, using only their free hands, must lace up the sneakers and tie a bow on it. Those who quickly and "purely" cope with the task will win.

You can easily create wedding scenarios that are cool and without a toastmaster, the main thing is to make an effort and not be limited by standard canons holding a celebration.

The more creative and funnier the organization of the celebration, the more pleasant the guests and newlyweds will remember this exciting and joyful day.

Ready scripts

Option number 1

Option number 2

The young, accompanied by witnesses, enter the red carpet. Guests stand on both sides, building a "gate of happiness".

Toastmaster:

Music sounds festive today!
______________ with ____________ we congratulate,
May they always remain in their memory
The joy of the first meeting and love.
Young people walk along the carpet, the guests shower them with wheat.

Toastmaster:

Welcome! Welcome!
Dear newlyweds!
Your parents meet you, go up to them, bow to them for their affection, love, for raising and educating you, and today they bless you for a happy life.
Young people approach their parents, who stand at the end of their journey and greet them with bread and salt (the groom's parents). The father of the bride on a tray holds two glasses of champagne tied with a ribbon; mother of the bride on a platter - grain.

Toastmaster:

Dear young!
Bread, according to old Russian custom, means prosperity in the house,
and glasses of wine so that you can be together all your life and not part.
Let these glasses together be inseparable never,
For life, the bride and groom will be for many years!
For joy and happiness for many years, kiss the bread and accept the blessing of your parents.
The groom's parents bless the young. The bride's mother sprinkles the newlyweds with grain.

Mother of the bride:

I pour rye on you
So that your family is good
I sprinkle with furious wheat,
May you be a friendly couple!

Toastmaster:

Now kiss your parents and drink wine
without untying the glasses.
Now everything is legal
Marriage is sealed with a crystal ringing.
Let it be sweet and bitter by sex.
Dear parents, step aside, make way for your children.
Dear and glorious newlyweds, come to the most honorable places of the wedding table.
Dear guests, we send the young people off with music and applause.
Young: _________ and ____________!
Their witnesses: ___________ and _________!
Dear parents, we ask you to take pride of place
near your children. Music and applause sounds for you.

Toastmaster:

Glory to grandparents relatives,
And honor, and our respect for them,
So that happiness spreads two wings to them,
So that their viburnum blooms forever.
Dear our grandparents, we also ask you to take places of honor only next to your children. Thank you for coming to rejoice in the happiness of your grandchildren and children. Music and applause sounds for you.
And you, invited guests, welcome guests, for bread, salt, for the word red, for a merry, sonorous feast, pass.
Young people and guests are seated at the tables

Toastmaster:

Dear guests! A wedding is a long business, so choose
a more comfortable place for yourself and a happier neighbor, behind whom
it will be possible to look after. However, don't forget to
and there was someone to take care of you.
The seating arrangement will be as follows:
men - closer to the snack,
women - closer to drinking.
Every fifth will be a commander. His responsibilities include:
pour, pour, but do not forget yourself.
And now commanders, prepare the champagne!
Pause.

Toastmaster:

Well, friends, we are all already assembled.
Bride in wedding dress
The groom has already been in place
And faithful, as always to the bride.
Friends sit side by side
Follow the wedding ceremony.
Let us open the wedding
From everyone to say, so as not to forget ...
Dear ___________ and _________! (young)
You have a special day today
One of the best days ever!
Today you both chose
One path out of a hundred paths.
To the sound of a crystal glass
Under a splash of boiling wine
Congratulations on legal marriage
We wish you happiness and good.
May every day lived nearby
Shines turquoise for you
Then you don't need gold
And the stone looks like a star.
Live together, up to two hundred years,
To the good envy of friends
There was a love you won't find
Getting stronger every year!
Fuller glasses we will pour
And the first toast is ready:
For the young, for happiness we drink,
ADVICE TO YOU YES LOVE!
We drank.

Toastmaster:

Dear guests, while you are having a snack, I would like to inform you about the forecast of today's celebration.
To the music.

Toastmaster:

Today is expected:

Cloudy, wedding hurricane with champagne shower;
t° above table 40°, air filled family happiness;
At night there is a fog in the head, in the morning a clearing is possible;
We ask you all to have fun, otherwise we will not let you get drunk.
Everyone should drink the first 3 glasses, the rest will go without a special invitation!
After the 8th glass is allowed:
ladies, restore hair and “plaster”;
gentlemen, take off your tie and unbutton the first top button ... (of course shirts)
After the 18th glass, it is desirable to sing, but ... it is undesirable to get into the neighbor's plate with your elbow!
If you can't rely on yourself, put a note with your home address in your pocket!
Dance only with someone else's wife, leave yours to the best friend.
You can’t dance standing up, dance sitting down, but at the same time try not to step on your neighbor’s hands!
Do not wipe your hands on the tablecloth, it is better to do it on the dress of the lady sitting next to you!
Put candy wrappers, fish and meat bones not on the table, but in your neighbor's pocket!
Remember: drink to the bottom, but do not lie down on the bottom!
If you want, drink little or a lot, but so that you don’t forget the way to the bed!
Everyone can drink, you just need to know:
For what? When? and how many?

Witness:

Lights, golden fireflies,
Bright light lit up today.
Relatives to the young for a walk
And relatives and friends gathered.
We see cheerful faces here,
And all eyes are turned to the young,
And we, friends, want to turn
On this solemn day to them:
Wedding Witness:
You walk hand in hand together,
From now on, there is only one way for you.
You were just a bride and groom
Now they are husband and wife.

Witness:

Wearing gold rings
There is a seal in the wedding certificate,
Well, young spouses,
We wish you on this day?
Wedding Witness:
Happiness to you, friends - newlyweds,
Joy and the brightest days,
You are family now, and by law
Both of you belong to her!

Toastmaster:

Where did the word "family" come from?
Once upon a time the Earth did not hear of him,
But Adam said to Eve before the wedding:
"Now I will ask you seven questions:
- Who will give birth to children, my queen?
And Eve quietly answered: "I am."
- Who will bring them up, my goddess?
And Eve dutifully answered: "I am."
- Who will babysit the grandchildren, my joy?
And Eve still answered: "I am."
- Who cooks food, irons clothes,
Caress me, decorate the house?
“I, I,” she answered, inhaling, “I, I.”
That's how "FAMILY" was born.
Dear _______ and _________!
Peace, harmony and joy to you,
Happiness, bad weather all in half.
Good smile, good wine,
Let the house shine with a good mistress.
Good husband, good wife,
Let's drink to friendship, family happiness.
They drink. A fire is brought on a tray (dry alcohol burns in a ceramic bowl).

Toastmaster:

From our grandfathers a custom came to us
Bring fire to the house of the newlyweds,
To ignite them reliable and familiar,
The hearth of the family, a big symbol of love,
And so that his fire gave warmth and light of love,
And in life work together,
So that everyone in your house is warm,
And life was happy, interesting.
And the more beautiful your life will be, the hearth will flare up brighter!
Young people are given fire to the music and applause.

Toastmaster:

We raise a toast to you, to your love, to your happiness!
We drank.

Toastmaster:

Guests! Silence please!
You must accept the WEDDING CHARTER!

WEDDING CHARTER FOR GUESTS

If you came to the wedding
Dressed up, dressed up,
You are now none other than the private at the wedding!
Therefore, listen to the Wedding REGULATION, drink and eat between the lines!
If the wedding breaks out: "BITTER!",
You scream as much urine as you have,
At the WEDDING CHARTER, breathe quietly,
Have a drink and eat.
If they say a toast,
Raise your glass right now!
Support the initiative with dignity
You can not drink - rest!
If the song of the wedding breaks out,
You do not know the words - do not be shy.
Sing without words, the neighbor will pull up,
Sing along - pull friendly!
If suddenly the dance starts
Go to the circle, get up boldly!
Know that a shake is good for everyone,
You can't, come on!
So, drink more, be sad less!
Do not hide plugs! Don't eat flowers!
And do not lose heart - you can hurt yourself badly!
Guests! Brothers! What is happening!
Look at these faces!
Everyone drank and is silent, but the wine is bitter,
It's just awkward to shout
But in fact: BITTER! BITTERLY!…
volleys balloons. Guests drink standing up.

Toastmaster:

We give a word for congratulations to parents
bride and groom! You lived for many years -
give them good advice!…
Parents give advice.

Toastmaster:

Dear Parents!
Big changes are taking place in your life today.
let us give you these wedding certificates,
I certify your new titles: FATHER-IN-Law, Mother-in-Law, Father-in-Law and Mother-in-Law.

WEDDING ORDER FOR THE MOTHER-IN-LIGHT

Listen to the Wedding Wedding Mandate Mother-in-law.
You blessed love
What were you going to know in advance
What did you raise your son for?
His family is your family
And do not grumble now you're in vain.
Son's daughter-in-law half,
So love her like a son.
Not all mistakes are noticed
If not, then everything forgives,
And there will be such a harmony in the family,
What anyone would envy.
They say there's a lot of blood
Their mothers-in-law spoil their daughters-in-law,
But we hope that you
You will always be right
You will be fair
To this beautiful girl.
You have a daughter-in-law
It's not a trifle, it's not nonsense,
Check it out right and left
And the bride, and the queen.
You must be silent in front of her,
Do not grumble and do not teach
You have to help in everything
Bring, bring, send.

WEDDING ORDER FOR A MOTHER-IN-LAT

Do not shed, dear, flammable tears,
Don't feel sorry for your daughter until the due date
She got the best husband
Of all modern men,
Of all the boys you've known
He will be the best son-in-law for you.
Forget the fears you hide
Starting a waltz with him to dance,
He is a nice and handsome guy
For everything agile and lively,
Not rude, not whimsical,
In short, he is an earthly angel.
You will find such, where hardly,
And he will not be lazy,
But provided that morality
You won't read every day.

WEDDING ORDER FOR FAT-IN-LAW

Father-in-law - you are a father - a hero!
Be a mountain for your son-in-law!
Invite more often
Treat yourself to delicious beer!
It is proposed to wash new ranks!.

Toastmaster:

Dear Parents!
You are a little sad today
Your children are leaving you.
But maybe that's how it's supposed to be
So that the hour of parting has come.
And how long have they timid barefoot walked under the table
The clumsy, unskillful furrowed the floor with their feet.
And today they are already adults
You had to leave your children.
Bitter, bitter parents, bitter,
To make the children happy!
BITTERLY!

Dear guests at our wedding, despite its age, Tortilla turtle rose from the bottom of the pond to congratulate the newlyweds.
Under the song, the turtle Tortilla enters on an armchair.

Turtle:

Turtle Song:
"It dragged on with brown mud
The smooth surface of an old pond,
I was like ______ (bride) ____,
300 years ago.
Was naive and careless
_____ (groom) _____ has a look
And then they decided
create a new family."
Oh, how wonderful you are!
Dear, lovely newlyweds!
I want to give you this key. He is not simple.
You will open the door to life for them, where happiness will meet you,
love, respect and wisdom.
The turtle gives the key to the young ones.
Turtle:
May life always be your paradise
And you always have the key to it.
I wish you all the best,
And you remember my Wedding Wedding Mandate:
May you always live together
The sun will shine on you
May you have a lifetime
How to live on a honeymoon.
The turtle leaves.

Toastmaster:

Dear guests, I propose to raise a glass to the fact that this young couple is always accompanied by peace, love, warmth and happiness!
Well, what are the guests, they took the glasses
Friendly, cheerfully raised!
To make them happy in full
Glasses should be drained to the bottom! ...
We drank. Break.

Toastmaster:

We ask everyone to sit down at the table, and eat and drink!
Morgunov, Vitsin and Nikulin enter with the song.
Song:
We came to the wedding
To congratulate you
Sing with you, dance,
Feed all of you.
We wish you all happiness and good,
And now together we will all drink to the bottom.
It's not very bad to walk at a wedding,
But it's better to drink ... 100 grams.
Treat guests, dance and leave.

Toastmaster:

And now, dear guests, I propose to listen to the love affair that was instituted for our young people.

"All rise, the court is in session!"

The prosecutor enters. The guests sit down, the young ones stand, the exit case and the marriage code are read out to the wife and husband.

Prosecutor:

Hearing case No. 2507
In the dock a native
___________, currently residing at:
st. , - and a native of the city of ________, currently living at the address: st. , ____________.
On the night of July 25, 1998, a citizen attacked a citizen. In turn…….. tried to cover up in every possible way, for which she was sentenced to criminal liability under Article 187. But thanks to the excellent work of the police, this case was solved and brought to court. There were witnesses at the crime scene: ………. And ____________.
Question to _____________:
1. You do not deny that on the night of July 25, 1998 you were at the address: st. ________________?
2. Question to the witness:
3. Where did you find ______________ on the night of July 25, 1998?
4. Question to the wedding witness:
5. Have ______ and ___ been registered before?
The court makes its decision!
1. Sentence ___________ and __________ under Article 198 of the Criminal Code.
2. For life __________ pay salary _______.
3. With today announce:
4. ________ - husband,
________ - wife.
5. __________ for life to bear the name of the husband.

Prosecutor:

MARRIAGE CODE (wife)

To your honeymoon
Make it a long five years
The code is somewhat harsh
Must be strictly observed.
This code is very old,
But in the century you will not find
And for every new couple
He is good in his own way.
Make the room cozy
So that the husband, when he comes home,
Was completely satisfied
The setting and you.
Learn to cook delicious.
Prepare this salad
To have a cabbage leaf in it
It looked like grapes.
Women are divided into 3 parts:
Body, mind and soul.
Every part is a drop of happiness
Give your spouse slowly.
Always meet your husband with a smile,
Look into his eyes
Tell me about all the mistakes
Ask about everything.
And she herself without laziness,
State your business
So that in a friendly exchange,
Radiate heat flow.
Don't drink, don't torture your husband
For various things
You are a wife, and you are a spouse,
Not a rusty saw.
We stand for the fact that in the world,
There would be peace, not war.
Mean in your own apartment
You must keep the peace.
But don't be so simple
If we say - the husband is lazy,
You, removing only shavings,
Stroke him sometimes.
But don't cut it all at once
And not an empty phrase,
And by example and show,
Personal business acumen.
If with the opinion of the spouse
Disagree sometimes.
Be, like a twig, elastic,
Don't say "NO" or "YES".
Give him a nice smile
And cunningly keep in the shadows
Slowly, delicately
Turn the course of events.
But a little boring
So that it does not become a family paradise,
You are always SMART and HOLY
Follow this code

MARRIAGE CODE (husband)

To your honeymoon
Lasted 20-30 years
The code is somewhat harsh
Remember, it's a big secret.
Sleep well after the wedding
Do not disturb your wife in a dream
And behave with dignity
If the room is not the ones.
Take care of the budget
And keep order.
Don't keep your money a secret
Give everything to your wife.
And over the years, and with deeds
Don't forget about love
And my wife in words
Call dear!
If children appeared
And more trouble
Both are to blame
But add your worries.
Wash baby diapers
Cook semolina porridge,
Don't spare your strengths
Do not speak harsh words.
Always be shaved, trimmed,
Neat and not fat
You will not be offended by a wife,
If you are silk, like a canvas.
You must protect your wife
Bring hot coffee to bed
And slippers on time to file.
Milk a cow a little light,
Prepare dinner and lunch
Fix iron and tiles
Wash the apartment on Saturdays.
Make beds in the morning
Wash diapers clean
Shave your mustache in time
Wipe the kids' noses.
If you follow these tips,
You will be the best husband in the world!
The prosecutor leaves.

Toastmaster:

So let's drink to the good outcome of the exit case and the marriage code.
Hymen:
Peace to all of you!

Toastmaster:

And here is Hymen himself - the ancient Greek God of the newlyweds!
Hymen:

I see all of you have gathered to congratulate the young.
But before congratulating you,
You must convince us.
That the best family
Created here, friends!
You say, __________, directly!
Haven't you been drunk for an hour, giving consent to marriage?
Once you decide not to back down?
Will you be faithful, will you not stop loving?
Spread everything, don't be afraid!
Do you swear to us?
Bride:
- YES

THE BRIDE'S VOW

Do you swear, wife, that you will protect and love your husband?
Be friendly, affectionate with him all your life?
Do you swear that at any cost
Will you be a good and faithful wife?
Do you swear not to blow your lips on your husband,
Do not even let the wind blow on ________?
Do you swear to bake cheesecakes more often
Thicker tea to pour, but sweeter?
And after dinner, when he lies down with a newspaper,
Swear that you will not swear for it!
Do you swear to spend money with care,

And if you borrow, then at least ten?

Hymen:
Well, and you, brave groom,
Who _____________ was named in childhood.
Swear a hundred times
As once Hippocrates,
That you will love your wife
You will always be faithful to her, do you promise it?

Groom:
- YES

Groom's Oath

You swear to be an exemplary husband,
Intercessor, friend, faithful helper?
You swear to take care of her,
Always kiss when leaving for work?
You swear to give all the money to your wife,
Advice to help where to put them?
You swear to eat her porridge without grimaces,
If the wife puts salt "in reserve".
Yes, things happen in life
The wife will spend half a paycheck on stockings.

You swear that your business is a side,
Will she not go to work in thin clothes?
The vow was taken at a solemn wedding meeting in the presence of a large number of guests. One copy is handed out. Keep the document forever, keep the oath.

Toastmaster:

I ask all guests to raise their glasses
Friends, acquaintances, relatives and relatives
And drink for the love and charm of our couple
For the happiness and health of the young!…
We drank.

Toastmaster:

And now we'll start the show -
Wedding gifts.
Dear guests, congratulations,
Friends and senior instructions.

Get up, young couple!
Relatives, relatives came to you,
Congratulate you, present your gifts,
Watch the introduction of the wedding game!

You, dear guests!
Don't put gifts together
You can give flowers to the bride,
All congratulations, wishes to the groom,
Everything else is a miracle chest.
Enter, in Russian folk costumes a man with a woman with a chest and a tray of cheese, with them an accountant with bills.
CHEESE
Sing:
Oh, empty, empty box,
There is no calico and brocade in it.
Oh, you, father-in-law and mother-in-law,
Get gifts.


Sing:
Oh, you, father-in-law and mother-in-law dear,
Gotta please my son-in-law
Take out your gift
To put in our chest.
Take the cheese, put it on the cheese, and say kind words to your children.
Parents say kind words and give a gift.
Sing:
Oh, you, grandmothers, grandfathers are cute,
Get your wallets
For a car, for an apartment
We need to scrape together the grandchildren.
Grandparents give gifts.
Sing:
Oh brothers and sisters
Help the young
For stockings and blouses
You also have to put it in.
Give gifts.
Sing:
Oh, you guests, dear guests,
What will you give!
For diapers, undershirts
Add young people.
Bypass all guests.
Sing:
Here is a full, full box,
There are chintz and brocade.
There were a lot of congratulations here
Let's shout: "BITTER!" from the heart.
We gave you gifts
So that chickens do not peck money,
To live better every year
So that your house would be a full bowl.
Live happily and amicably
Have everything you need in life
Keeping the fire of love holy
Until the wedding golden.
They leave.

Toastmaster:

While the counting commission sums up the results, I ask the young people to come to me.
young wife
And beautiful and slim
She matches the groom,
The first dance of the young!

All guests do not lose heart,
Until you drop - dance!
You went out into the circle of guests under a veil,
Blinded the walls with whiteness
As if the color of your affectionate cherry
Shed leaves on you.
The walls of the house whiten from you,
How good is your wedding dress,
How are you dancing smoothly, weightlessly
You swim like a snow-white swan

Young people and guests dance. Break. Competitions and games are held.

Toastmaster:

Danced, it's time to catch your breath
For bread - salt is taken!
Bread - salt to eat
Yes good word listen.
Friends! Fill your glasses with wine
Let joy reign at our table!
We drank. The postman Pechkin enters on a bicycle.
Pechkin:
Hello! It's me - the postman Pechkin.
Can you tell me where the wedding is?
Toastmaster:
Postman Pechkin, you just hit her.
And who do you need?
Pechkin:
Let's see. So-so! Valuable parcel, telegrams, parcel.
Is reading.
Wedding. Bride and groom. Only I won’t give them to them, they don’t have documents.

Toastmaster:

No, no, postman Pechkin. That's just how they got a wedding certificate of marriage today. We are all witnesses.
Pechkin:
Well, if so, then I hand the package to the bride / with a saw /.
We give you a precious item,
With this item, hello to the spouse!
The saw is not for firewood - for a marital purpose,
They drank to her until the roosters crowed.
And in the morning he gets up, you drank again,
Then they were making money.
If he doesn't like your dinner,
Take a saw instead of a delicious seasoning.
The husband will eat and only praise!
And you always try to saw!
And if you show your subject,
The husband will affectionately say: "Dove, hello!"
And for you, fiancé, another parcel / with iron gloves /.
We give you not chain mail, not a saber
You are not in a military battle, but at a wedding.
They will be useful to you forever
So that the wife will bow before you.
You wear them, never take them off!
Otherwise, dear, you will be in trouble!
And you'll be dreaming all night,
If you take off your gloves.
Make your wife cook delicious
Yes, always use a mitten.
Caress with a prickly hand more often.
Happiness will flow to you like a river.
If you take your wife to manufactured goods,
Then put the mittens on the goods,
The mittens will serve you right,
If you keep them, you will be about!
And in this parcel is a bottle of champagne with paintings by the guests present here. But you will open it when you have your first child.
Now listen to the telegrams.
He reads the telegrams and leaves.

Toastmaster:

So that the sun shines on the young
And there would be so much happiness in life
To last until the last days
Let's shout BITTER in unison!
Yes, young people kiss sweetly, but in life they will have to share grief and joy in half. Moreover, in every family there is a distribution of responsibilities.
Tell a fortune on a chamomile
Know your roles.
Chamomile with duties. The bride and groom tear off the chamomile petals in turn and read out their duties.

Responsibilities

I will love you tenderly, But I will not forget to cut.
I'll be the first in the kitchen in the morning, I won't forget to wash the dishes.
I will protect and undead you, I will not forget to wash your socks.
I will give all my salary, I will not forget to buy flowers.
I'll cook delicious dinner, I won't forget a bottle of beer.
I will go to the theater with you, I will not forget to drive to the cinema.
I won't make a scandal beautiful words I won't forget.
I will wash the diapers myself, I will not forget to walk with the child.
I will be obedient, kind, faithful, I will not forget to give gifts.
I will go shopping, I will not forget to wash the floors.
I will idolize you, And I will forget about men.
I will love you all my life, I will forget about women.

We heard that you can handle the responsibilities
in your life, and now you overcome the obstacle,
who will meet on your way.
Pull the ribbon, the groom must carry the bride in his arms.

Toastmaster:

Excellent, well done guys!
And here is the counting commission, which will announce the result (announces) to us.
But who will we give the family budget to?
Friends, we will not be in order,
If we do not solve the riddle,
Which of the newlyweds to be the head!
And maybe we'll find out
If we treat them with a loaf.
Explain that bread must be broken, whoever is bigger is the head.

Toastmaster:

And now, as a sign of the unification of the two clans and your hospitality, treat everyone with bread.
But that is not all.
Let our young people know
Secrets of the wedding
What is often empty nests
Storks bring children
Or leave them in cabbage,
Or they bring it right into the house,
So that neither peace nor sadness
It didn't start in the house.
So that more often chicks were found,
Transforming your family
As it used to be in Rus' for a long time,
You must disentangle the porridge.
Young people treat guests with bread and porridge.
Toastmaster:
And this wedding glass
We'll drink it all to the bottom
For a husband to be the best of husbands
And the best - the wife.
We drank.

Toastmaster:

While we were drinking, walking, dancing, having fun, Evgeny and Irina did not waste time in vain, they successfully completed the courses of the Family Construction Academy.
And we want to give them diplomas.
Bride Diploma
This “diploma” was issued to a person living in the city, down the street, in house no. This paper claims to have taken a course in marriage and family sciences. During the training, she showed the following knowledge:

Food preparation - 5
Washing - 5
Family vision - 5
Laughter - 5
Humor - 5

This “diploma” claims that she was transferred from the department of girlhood to the department of the family institute of life.
The diploma gives the right to become a heroine mother in the future.
Diploma of the bride and groom
This “diploma” was issued to a person living in the city of ___________, down the street, in house No., apt. No.
This document claims to have completed a course in marriage science. During the training, he showed the following knowledge:

Money making - 5
Telefootball hockey sickness - 5
Fishing - 5
Computability - 5
Scrubbing - 5

The "diploma" claims that he was transferred from the department of bachelors to the department of the family institute of life and gives him the right to become a father in the future.
Handing over, drinking.

Toastmaster:

And let's check how our young people know each other.
To the groom: recognize the bride by a kiss (they put the groom on a chair, three girls call him, they blindfold him; the bride always kisses).
To the bride: recognize the groom by the hands (five men).
What are you guests laughing at? Now we will check you!
For guests: recognize your wife by the knee, by touch (they call one family and several girls, the girls sit on the bench in a row, legs crossed, the man is blindfolded).
Let's raise our glass to that
who became the chosen one,
Eugene whose preferred beauty
And in whom he found a lot of merit.
We wish, Ira, to be always loved!
The union of hearts is considered indissoluble!
And let the husband report daily
That he does not have a soul in his wife,
That for him she is more beautiful than all,
For (name) - our bride!
We drank.

Toastmaster:

We have problems in life
However, everyone cares about blood in life.
One openly, and the other furtively,
Simple feelings - friendship and love.
Love ... Is there anything else like that,
That brought so much light to life.
She does not like boredom and peace,
Love is not just a feeling - a craft!
So let's drink to those who wait, forgetting that there are others.
Who can't be loved
For those who are forever dear
Only one eye shines with love.
For the love that transforms life
What makes the heart beat again
For the love that conquers troubles
We drink to true love!!!
We drank.

Toastmaster:

Young people are asked to stand
They invite you to dance!
Resplendent with its beauty,
Our young swan
Invites to a round dance
Dance all honest people.
Drank, break, games, contests.

Toastmaster:

We declare beauty.
Beauties under No. 1, No. 2, No. 3. (under construction)
So let me introduce:
Beauties No. 1 - Marisabel (coming forward);
No. 2 - Just Maria (steps forward);
No. 3 - Manka Bond (coming forward).
But men will not forgive us if we spend without them. Poet / Women are divided into 3 parts: at the same time we will hold a "Handsome Man" called "Strength and Agility".
Allow me to introduce the participants:
handsome men No. 1 - Arnold Schwarzenegger;
No. 2 - Sylvestor Stolloni;
No. 3 - You are a lady.
We announce musical.
Participants dance a dance.
Girls invite boys. The crucial moment has come.
Select the perfect couple and give prizes.
In the role of beauties are men in disguise, beauties - women; the perfect couple is revealed and prizes are awarded.

Toastmaster:

We ask everyone to sit down at the table,
And eat and drink!
Hey men, take your seats
Don't forget your ladies.
Look at them:
How to draw a groom!
And the bride is no secret
Blossomed like a poppy flower.
Let the bottle splash with foam
Let it be full of laughter
Let you in family life
Whatever you want will come true!
To make you newlyweds
Remember this evening
So that bachelors, dudes,
The happiness of marriage understood!
Kiss the newlyweds
Let those kisses not be counted!
Otherwise, the poor invited
And bitter to drink, and bitter to eat!
Today you got married
Happy day for you
Once you lit the beacon of love,
May it shine on you for the rest of your life.
Our wedding party is coming to an end. For the solemn farewell to the young, I ask everyone to stand up. We met the young people solemnly, let's celebrate solemnly. Dear our witnesses, you have to see off the young,
Walk the earth happily
Bring love, songs and hopes,
And my radiant youth.
May Mother Fatherland joyfully and tenderly
Bless another family.
And today I admonish you young people,
And in love with each other
We say: "Good luck, dear friends,
Be worthy of each other forever."
We accompany the young.
Let's continue the wedding together!
You are guests - guests,
Don't sit like stumps
Drink, eat, be merry.
How much the soul wishes.
Come back tomorrow at 12 noon! (second day)

2nd day

There is a table in the doorway, at which the Opohmetologist sits,
Head of Aibolit Pokhmelyaevich, Happy lover.
There are bottles of lemonade, vodka, wine, water, champagne on the table.
Labels on the vials:

Lotteries for the second day

Potion of love
Potion of happiness
Potion for treason
Medicine for indigestion
Headache medicine
Potion for 100 diseases
Separation medicine

Guests buy 100 gr., enter the hall, those who wish buy wedding lottery tickets from the cashier.
When everyone gathered, invite them to the table, but the place of the bride and groom was taken by a "false bride and groom."
Ask the guests to buy the place of the bride and groom./
Toastmaster:
Good afternoon dear friends!
Here is another happy family. We express hope and complete confidence that this family will be beautiful, happy and kind all their lives.
Dear ____________ and ______________!
We congratulate you on a solemn day,
Pour golden wine into glasses,
We wish everything in life to be in order,
So that there are no storms and everything is smooth,
So that you live together, love each other,
So that children are born, they bring joy to the house,
With the big word "WE" you will replace "I",
FAMILY means a lot in life.
So let's drink to a new young family, to their love!
We drank. They serve noodles, but there are no spoons.

Toastmaster:

The guests sat down, the guests are waiting:
Why don't spoons carry?
A gypsy woman runs in with spoons. A gypsy sells spoons.

Toastmaster:

Happens in a person's life
Memorable days,
But among the days of any age
We remember our weddings.
Years, decades go by
But sacredly remember HE, SHE.
Happy day of their engagement.
HE is the husband now, SHE is the wife.
So let's drink to them!
For the health of the young!
For a new family
For a fun wedding!
We drank.

Toastmaster:

They say love is not verbose: suffer, think, figure it out.
This is all conditional, in my opinion, we are people, we are not carp.
And if you really want to make your head spin with happiness,
Speak, people, speak the best words!
Wedding Witness:
Both the groom and the young woman live you 100 years
No, not knowing the troubles.
To respect each other
To love, help
So that families honor the laws
And they loved their parents.
Wedding Witness:
Let your love not melt like smoke
You, husband, do not forget that you were born a man,
A woman is your weak half.
Give her flowers, talk about love
Take it harder for yourself.
Wedding Witness:
Let the wife be affectionate, kind,
She guards the family hearth.
Better feed your hubby
Then you will enter more firmly into his heart.
Wedding Witness:
Let peace and tranquility settle in the family,
Survive you until the golden wedding!
May every day be lived in harmony,
And may God give you such a life to live,
Which is similar to a good song,
And the song is not easy to put together.

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Which includes contests, toasts and the most popular traditions. The 2017 wedding scenario for the presenter can be very useful, making it possible to update the repertoire and please the guests at the wedding.

Solemn meeting of the newlyweds

Friends and relatives line up in a living corridor in front of the restaurant and sprinkle rose petals on the bride and groom. They are met by their parents before entering. Moms hold a loaf, and fathers hold a tray with glasses.

Tamada says:

“Dear newlyweds! Your friends and family have arranged this pink rain for you so that your life is as easy, bright and beautiful as rose petals. And now it's time to receive congratulations from your parents. Your mothers greet you with bread and salt. Break off each piece from the loaf and salt it well.

When the newlyweds fulfill the request, the toastmaster says: “Salted? Now feed each other. And let this be the first and last time in your family life when you annoyed each other.

Newlyweds eat bread. Tamada continues:

“Accept the glasses from your fathers' hands. This is not an easy drink. It is made on the basis of honey to make your life as sweet as honey. He insisted on the petals of exquisite flowers, so that the bride would always be irresistible. An oak root is added to it so that the groom is always strong. Drink this magical elixir and may all your dreams and desires come true.

Before the door of the restaurant, you can immediately resolve the issue that worries many of those present - the gender of the first child. Wedding scenarios are not complete without collecting money in sliders during the feast, but in 2017 I want to bring new ideas to this ceremony.

“Now break the glasses. Now we can find out the gender of your first child. If the fragments are large, then a boy will be born, if small, then a girl.

Lovers break glasses. Then the host solemnly invites the bride and groom with all the guests to the table:

“Everything went according to the law -
They sealed the marriage with a crystal ringing.
And finally the time has come
Everyone go to the banquet hall."

Toasts and table games

The wedding script should include toasts and fun table games that will help the toastmaster keep the guests in the right mood. If a theme evening is planned, then the speech of the presenter should be appropriate. For example, for a pirate wedding scenario, references to treasure and the sea would be appropriate. And during a classic wedding banquet, it is better to use simple, sincere and romantic words.

First toast

Look how beautiful the bride is
What an adorable groom.
And today at a wonderful wedding
Wishes and toasts for them.
Maybe it's time for everyone to drink.
A friendly "Hurrah" for the bride and groom.
To make them happy in full,
Let's drain the glasses to the bottom!

Toast to parents

This can't be forgotten
The moment is solemn and tense.
Let's raise our glasses friends
For the parents of the newlyweds.
How difficult it is, let everyone know
And what a joy it is to raise children.
My toast, no doubt, is very important:
For fathers and mothers!

Before you say a toast to your parents, do not forget to give them the floor for parting words for the newlyweds.

Board game "Neighbours"

Right hand raised
And they waved to the young.
Well, the left hand falls easily
On the right knee of your neighbor.
Handle right hot
We will hug our neighbor by the shoulder.
And everything looks good.
Does everyone like it? Great!
Let's push the neighbor on the left,
To the one on the right - wink.
Let's take glasses in our hands
Let's pour to the brim.
The fun continues.
Clink glasses with the neighbor on the right.
And of course not a problem.
Clink glasses with the neighbor on the left.
Together, getting up from the place,
Let's say in chorus "Congratulations!"
And we all drink to the bottom!
Don't forget to eat and pour again.

This game will undoubtedly cheer up the guests and bring a lot of smiles.

New contests for the wedding scenario 2017

When compiling a wedding script, we suggest paying attention to the competitions that are popular in 2017, which the toastmaster or presenter can hold:

1. "I kiss". Pair competition. Men take turns kissing girls, naming a place for a kiss: cheek, neck, hand, etc. You can't repeat after your opponents. Whoever comes up with the most kissing spots wins.
2. "Musical group". A pair competition in which women play the role of musical instruments, and men - the musicians playing them. At first, the musicians take turns rehearsing, and then imitate a joint performance to a popular song.
3. "Dance Battle" It is necessary to divide the guests into male and female teams. Witnesses or newlyweds are appointed captains. The task of the players: during the battle, synchronously repeat the movements of the captain. Then you can change the captains places.
4. "Crazy Dancing". Have the participants sit on chairs and have them dance with different body parts (arms, legs, eyebrows, tongue, etc.).
5. "Repeater". Several guests repeat funny tongue twisters after the host. You can invite participants to talk with candy in their mouths.
6. "Gift". Men are offered to write on a piece of paper what they will give to their ladies. And women tell how they will use the gift, not knowing what they will be given.

On the site, you can find many more interesting competitions for a wedding banquet and for a modern bride price.

Scenario 2017: wedding traditions and rituals

First dance

Noise wedding verse is not in vain.
I ask the couple in love to stand up.
After all, the sounds of music are exciting, beautiful
You are invited to dance the first dance.

As a rule, the wedding dance of the young takes place during the first dance block. You can include it in the wedding scenario 2017, as the very first dance at the celebration.

Throwing a bouquet and a garter

Everyone is interested to know
Who will be the next bride.
Get up, girlfriends.
Throw the bouquet, your bride.

Everyone is waiting for the denouement.
Who will get the garter?
Groom, do not be cunning, do not torment.
Throw on command: one, two, three.

Not a single scenario of a European wedding is complete without throwing a bouquet. This tradition has been especially popular at weddings for many years, especially people love it. unmarried girls. After all, everyone is interested to know who will go down the aisle next.

family hearth

Family hearth - quite old wedding custom, but it should not be excluded from the modern scenario of 2017. Still, many newlyweds dream of holding this ceremony. After all, this is the most touching and sentimental moment of the celebration.

The newlyweds hold a large candle, and in the hands of their mothers are lit candles. Under a beautiful background melody, the presenter says:

“For centuries, we cherish the custom:
Bring fire to the family that is born.
To kindle for them such a familiar hearth of the family - a great pledge of love.
May it always be light
There will be luck and a happy journey together.
Let everyone be warm in your house,
And let life become serene"

“Dear parents, I invite you to light a family hearth for your children. Thus, conveying their warmth, love and care to them. Help them take the first step towards a happy future together.

Parents light a candle. The host solemnly announces:

“Dear guests, you have witnessed a magical event - the formation of a new family hearth. Dear newlyweds, take care of him. May this fire illuminate your path, give you warmth and help you overcome all life's obstacles. Now it's time to make a wish and blow out the candles. Everything you wish will surely come true!”

The final stage of a modern wedding celebration, which the host must take into account in the scenario, is cutting the cake. After that, the newlyweds say goodbye to the guests.

We presented only one of the possible options for a wedding scenario. You can supplement it with other contests and rituals, depending on the wishes of the newlyweds.

Recently, a new trend has emerged - the organization of a wedding event without observing ancient traditions, during which considerable time is devoted to fun game contests and competitions.

This means that in preparation for the celebration, funny and modern wedding scenarios for the toastmaster are prepared in advance. When conducting a wedding in this format, it is required to involve the newlyweds and guests in a fun and exciting gaming festival - an interesting show that will remain in the memory of all participants in the holiday for a long time.

Scenario with contests

The biggest celebration of a young family is rightfully considered the Day of Registration of the Marriage Union.

The wedding format has a wide range: from a modest student party to a grandiose large-scale celebration. It all depends on the wishes of the bride and groom, national traditions and, of course, from financial opportunities. Without exception, all newlyweds dream that their wedding would be a real joyful festive event filled with fun, laughter, jokes, songs, interesting contests, and dances.

To do this, even during the preparation of the wedding, it is necessary to draw up an interesting scenario, according to which the wedding host will be able to competently and cheerfully hold the event, observe the customs and traditions of everyone.

By modern style wedding can be divided into several parts:




1. Start of the wedding. The wedding celebration begins with a solemn part. Young spouses at the festive wedding table accept congratulations and gifts from all participants of the wedding celebration.
2. Main part. During the second part, a fun entertainment program is held, full of numerous fun contests, funny competitions, game theatrical skits with the participation of the newlyweds and wedding guests. There are also fun song competitions and, of course, moving dances.
3. Final part. In the final part, romantic wedding rituals are held: lighting candles in the hearth, sand ceremony, tying a scarf, throwing a wedding bouquet by the bride and other interesting rituals. At the end of the wedding, guests are offered a delicious dessert - a wedding cake.

If you are planning a wedding with a large number of young people who are not interested in boring old traditions and want to have fun, you can offer one of the options for an interesting scenario with the participation of a host or toastmaster.


The wedding begins with the words of the toastmaster: “Attention, our dear guests! Now we will see an amazing and beautiful couple - our beautiful bride and groom are coming up to us. Let's greet our newlyweds with thunderous applause!

The bride and groom approach the toastmaster and stand in the center of the wedding hall. Tamada continues: “Good afternoon (gives the names of the bride and groom)! Let's start your wedding. Please accept our congratulations on entering into a legal marriage.

Congratulations on the birth of a new young family (gives the name of the young spouses)!”

The host recites the following short congratulatory poem:



“Our dear newlyweds! Let's now come to the closest and dearest - your parents. In the hands of your mothers you see a symbol of well-being - ruddy and lush wedding bread, a symbol of your home well-being and prosperity. I suggest that the bride and groom go up to their parents and break off a piece of the wedding loaf for themselves.

The newlyweds come up and break off a piece of bread from the sides.

"Dear guests! What conclusion can be drawn from the broken off young pieces of loaf? Now you can understand who in a young family is a big fan of food or will be the main one in the family!




Now salt your slices of wedding bread hard. Salt do not regret, salt as much as possible! With love and tender eyes, look affectionately at each other, exchange pieces and feed each other diligently! Dear guests!

Pay attention to how carefully they feed each other, they don’t want to be hungry!” There is laughter in the hall. Tamada invites guests to go to the wedding hall and take their places at the wedding table. While the guests are seated, the host says the words: “Dear guests! Please do not be shy, today we will have fun, try delicious treats and raise toasts in honor of the most beautiful couple.

I suggest gentlemen to look after beautiful ladies so that the glasses and plates are not empty.

Participants of the wedding celebration fill their glasses. The leader's words are:

“Dear newlyweds! Today, on this wonderful wedding day, the most significant event took place - you connected your destinies and united your life paths. From now on, you are no longer a bride and groom, but real spouses - husband and wife. Let me congratulate you on behalf of all the wedding guests on this step and on your legal marriage!”

“Dear (name of the groom, name of the bride)! What a joy to see a happy couple in love! Everyone knows that the greatest happiness in life is confidence in mutual love!

Our newlyweds have such great happiness. It is for this happiness that we raise our glasses.

Our first toast is to our beautiful newlyweds, to your happy family life!”



While the participants at the wedding table are trying festive dishes, the toastmaster invites the guests to get acquainted, congratulate the newlyweds and give them gifts.

The host approaches each of the guests, introduces himself and offers a microphone for congratulations.

After congratulations and presentation of gifts, the toastmaster offers to hold a quiz about the newlyweds: “Dear bride and groom! Now we will hold a quiz among the guests on the knowledge of the history of your acquaintance. Guests must answer questions, and young people are asked not to suggest the correct answers.



1. The first prize is an air kiss from our beautiful bride. Question to the audience - who is the bride according to the horoscope? Answer: Taurus.
2. The second prize - a strong male handshake of the groom - will be given to the one who answers the question: what kind of sport does (groom's name) prefer. Answer: sambo.
3. The third prize is a kiss from our bride. Question to the guests: What are the bride's favorite flowers? Answer: roses.
4. The fourth prize is a triple kiss from our fiancé. What is the groom's favorite sport at the wedding today? Answer: A unique opportunity to have a drink with our bride for brotherhood.
5. The fifth prize for the bride and groom is the opportunity to give each other a hot kiss if they give the correct answers to the following questions: Question to our bride: What dish does the groom like best? Question to the groom: What long-running series (bride's name) has been watching since childhood and will not be able to watch it to the end?

After the comic quiz is over, the presenter offers to fill the glasses again and taste the dishes of the festive treat. After a while, the host announces a competition about parents.

“Today, the bride and groom have a new status “Husband and Wife”. In connection with this joyful event, the changes also affected their parents. We invite fathers and mothers of the newlyweds to learn their new statuses.


He turns to the groom's mother: “Our dear mother, you are no longer just a lady, but a mother of a wonderful bride. An eyebrow will never frown, our ideal .... (guests continue in chorus - mother-in-law!).

The following words are an appeal to the mother of the bride: “Now you have a new son - your wonderful wonderful son-in-law! Be with your son-in-law, you are simpler, as it should be .... (mother-in-law!) ”

Tamada proposes a toast to the parents of the bride and groom: “I propose a toast to the closest people - to the parents. It was these people who surrounded you, young people, with their selfless love and care, were your faithful support and support. Let's raise a glass in their honor and thank them for raising such wonderful children, our groom (name) and bride (name)!

The sound of glasses clinking. After a snack, it's time for moving fun contests.

Tamada proposes to hold a dance competition with the following words: “I invite all wedding participants to the dance floor so that our couple in love will have a pleasant training in our Kissing Academy.”




1. The first lesson is "Royal Kiss". We offer the bride to sit on an imaginary throne (offers a decorated chair). Here she is, our queen! The bridegroom is her subject, who must kiss the hand of his queen. (The groom should get down on one knee and kiss the bride's hand) Tamada invites the guests to applaud the young for the first lesson.
2. The second lesson is "Caucasian". The host addresses the groom with a request to imagine himself as a horseman standing on one mountain (puts a chair in front of him). Dzhigit shouts to his bride: "I love you!". The mountain echo (witness of the groom) repeats this phrase. The bride at the foot of the mountain (chair) in response shouts “I love you!”, The witness, like an echo, repeats this phrase to the witness and he passes it on to the groom. In conclusion, the groom and the witness perform an incendiary lezginka. The groom goes to the bride and kisses her.
3. The third lesson is "Cossack". The bride is a beautiful farmer, and the groom is a Cossack. He enters the farm at a gallop, sitting astride a dashing horse (witness), circles his bride in a circle three times and kisses her on the go.
4. The fourth lesson is "Graduation" or "Wedding Kiss". The guests stand in a circle, in the center - the newlyweds. The guests chant “Bitter!”, the bride and groom kiss, and the guests count how long their kiss lasts.

After this competition, the host announces the first dance of the newlyweds, which begins the dance program with the participation of all participants in the wedding.




When the guests get a little tired of fast dancing, the host offers to hold a popular contest "Guess the gender of the future first-born of the young."

Tamada announces: “We all know that a happy young family is a family with small children. Dear friends, let's all make magic together and order the first-born for the young spouses - a daughter or a son. I invite witnesses to be bankers and offer them bags to collect money for the baby.

Whoever collects more money in his bag, a baby of this gender will appear in the family.

While collecting and counting money, the host asks funny questions, and the guests quickly answer:




“I suggest our bankers announce the results! Witnesses, state the sums collected. Now you can make a statement: in the family (names the common name of the young) the first will be born (names the sex of the child). I propose the following toast to the health of the firstborn.

It does not matter what gender the first child will be, the main thing is that he be healthy and strong. Let's raise our glasses to love!"

Scenario without competitions and traditions


Thinking over the format of the wedding, modern brides and grooms often think about giving their main festive event a special personality and holding a wedding in their own style without competitions and observing ancient traditions.

The usual scenarios consist of numerous competitions, in order to participate in which the toastmaster has to persuade the wedding guests. Today's youth are perplexed by the contests of carrying an apple between the legs or kissing different parts of the neighbor's body.

In order to hold an interesting and spectacular wedding without competitions and without observance of outdated ancient rites, it is important to correctly plan the wedding event in advance.

The proposed order of the wedding celebration is as follows:




1. Each of the future spouses, with the help of close friends, prepares for the wedding in their home.
2. The groom with close friends goes to meet the bride at her house. When meeting the bride, the groom brings a gift bridal bouquet and words of love.
3. Guests are offered light snacks and drinks at the bride's house. The first photo session is underway.
4. The bride and groom with close friends, witnesses and parents go to the place of registration of the marriage union. The outdoor ceremony is considered a wonderful alternative to the usual ceremony in the official registry office.
5. At the end of the ceremony, the newlyweds go for a walk and a photo shoot.
6. From the walk, the newlyweds come to the place where the ceremony will take place. wedding banquet. Guests and relatives form a living corridor through which the young people pass into the hall. Along the way, the newlyweds are showered with fragrant petals of multi-colored roses and greeted with words of congratulations.
7. Congratulations from parents.

The bride and groom and invited guests enter the wedding hall, filled with the sounds of wedding melodies, and take their seats at the festive wedding tables.

Tamada pronounces the following congratulatory words:



A beautiful song on a wedding theme sounds in the background music. The participants of the celebration begin the wedding banquet.


Some time later - after the guests had a bite, the host invites them to congratulate the young spouses and give wedding gifts:

“Let's congratulate our young people (the name of the bride and groom) on the most solemn birthday of the new family - Happy Marriage Day! Today, the closest friends and parents have gathered here and from the bottom of their hearts give you their congratulations.

The host in turn approaches each participant in the wedding and provides the floor for wishes.

After congratulations, the toastmaster pronounces an invitation to fill the glasses and continue the festive meal.



1. Tamada announces the start entertainment program: "Today, real magicians came to congratulate our young people, who will be happy to entertain our guests with their wonderful and even magical numbers."
2. After the performance of professional artists, the toastmaster offers professional dancers to conduct dance master classes, followed by the involvement of guests in their dance program.
3. Those who wish to be photographed are sent to shoot in a decorated photo zone.
4. Tamada announces the dance of the young: “We invite our dear newlyweds to their first wedding waltz. Now they are no longer bride and groom, but husband and wife. Now our wonderful couple will spin in a slow waltz dance, and let the wonderful sounds of music envelop them with their magic veil! And we will be happy to admire the happy couple in love!
5. The sounds of the waltz are replaced by rhythmic fast music, the wedding participants join the young people and a kind of wedding flash mob begins.
6. The wedding ends with the cutting of the wedding cake. The leader says:



The wedding holiday ends with a fire show or touching ceremonies of launching Chinese lanterns into the sky with a lit candle inside.

This video will show you how to write a wedding script:

This is how, in a new way, without observing established traditional rites and competitions, you can spend an interesting wedding celebration. The modern entertainment industry and their own creative approach allow young people to make a real fascinating spectacle out of a wedding.

After registering the marriage and walking, the newlyweds and guests go to the banquet hall (or other place where the wedding feast will take place).

According to custom, the young are met at the door by their parents with bread and salt on an embroidered towel. They congratulate couple and are treated to a loaf. Young people break off or bite bread, while the one whose piece is larger is jokingly considered the head of the family.

Parents:

Children, live happily

Be a friendly family!

Now show us

Who will be the head of it?

Bite the loaf boldly

Choose your roles

Everything will be clear without words

By the size of the pieces!

After that, according to legend, the groom must carry his bride over the threshold in his arms. The guests, standing on both sides of the door, shower the newlyweds with rose petals, rice, millet, small coins - kami - for happiness and well-being.

Another variant: when several pairs of guests hold stretched ribbons blocking the way for the young - the first ribbon is almost on the floor, the next is a little higher, the last is approximately at the level of the knees. The groom is asked, stepping over the ribbons, to list his feelings for the bride: I love, respect, etc. He must guess to carry the bride through this ordeal in his arms.

Toastmaster:

Oh you gentlemen,

Take all the places

Because you today

Collected here for a reason!

There were two - he, she,

And now there is only one family!

Let's have a wonderful day

Drink for their happiness to the bottom!

What a beautiful couple we are

Everyone admires them.

No sweeter, no more beautiful

Our glorious young.

We bless their union

Let's start a beautiful holiday!

So, friends, today is a fateful day. Two loving hearts(names of the bride and groom) made one important decision - to be together forever. Let's all support them together in this difficult decision, let's have fun from the bottom of our hearts so that they remember this wedding as a bright, beautiful, truly happiest day in their lives, although they will, of course, have very, very many happy days ahead of them!

In an arbitrary form, the toastmaster invites guests to fill plates and glasses, calls on men to take care of the ladies sitting next to them, etc.

You can announce the comic “charter” of the holiday or the “rules of conduct” at the table.

Guests, be bolder

You're at a wedding - don't forget!

Treats are full here

Appetizers and wine!

To whom is meat, to whom are fish?

Let the smiles not go out

There's no reason to be shy

For both ladies and men

There is no place for sad people here

After all, the bride and groom are here!

We are a group of friends

Be closer and kinder

Don't waste your time

Eat, Eat!

When the glasses are filled, the toastmaster makes the first toast to the newlyweds.

Dear newlyweds!

A magical day has come for you

And you are so happy

Do not hide the radiance of those eyes!

Let there be many toasts

To keep the union strong.

Finding your love is not easy

We want you to keep it

So that you can find each other

Support, tenderness, warmth.

Today you made

One cherished dream

Towards future happiness

Hand in hand you stepped

Live in kindness and harmony

Care, peace and love! Bitterly!

When the guests have satisfied their first hunger, congratulations from relatives and presentation of gifts begin. The bride's parents are the first to address the couple - with a toast, an order, a congratulation. Next - the groom's parents, then the older generation (grandparents) and all other relatives, then friends. There are cries of "Bitter". After each speech, it is necessary to allow time for refreshments.

When everyone has congratulated the newlyweds, the toastmaster can read the sent telegrams and postcards from those who are not present at the wedding. If there are a lot of people who want to congratulate, then let the congratulations sound throughout the first half of the celebration, interspersed with dances and games at the discretion of the toastmaster.

According to tradition, a toast to the parents must be made at the wedding. It is announced by the toastmaster.

Toastmaster: My friends! This magnificent celebration, this friendly company, this plentiful table would not have been in sight if it were not for the people about whom, according to custom, they always speak with special respect. It is, of course, the parents. For them today is not just a fun holiday. And they experience hardly less than the bride and groom themselves ...

Everyone admires the beautiful couple,

But surely among us

There are those who worry the most

Sighing furtively more than once.

Bow to parents, respect,

They are the beginning of all beginnings,

And we respectfully

Let's raise our glass to them!

Newlyweds, hug your parents and tell them how much you love them. After all, they are now a little "bitter"!

It's time to add some entertainment. The traditional element of the celebration - the oath of the spouses - will sound more interesting and livelier if the young people do not just repeat the word “I swear” after the toastmaster, but end the lines with a word in rhyme (it suggests itself).

Toastmaster: Without a doubt, our young tens and hundreds of times said tender words to each other - words of love. But to become a real, indestructible family, something more is needed, because marriage is also a duty. I invite the young people to take an oath in front of all those present.

To become a strong family

Make an oath to each other

I will start the lines

And you continue them.

Husband's oath

I swear to be a wonderful husband

Dishes regularly ... - Wash.

I swear to my wife not to object,

Love her and ... - Respect.

I swear (and this is not a joke to you)

Give her mink ... - Fur coats.

Indulge in all the spouse

And in her arms ... - Carry.

Bring your paycheck home

For sandwiches with... — Caviar.

To make it clear to everyone:

My wife and I have everything ... - Great!

Wife's oath

I swear to become a faithful wife,

And the husband gently ... - Kiss (or hug).

I swear to bear him children:

And sons, and... - Daughters.

I swear to take care of him

To love stronger with each... - In the afternoon.

Meet my husband after work

Warm him up in the rain, and in ... - I'm cold.

And I promise not to forget

Lunch-dinner ... - Feed.

And to be an irreplaceable wife,

And loving, and ... - Beloved!

Toastmaster: Well, my dears, now you are truly bound by this oath forever. And what's more, not only you are connected, but also your parents on both sides. Even they will be called now in a new way. Come on, precious parents, guess my riddles, who will be discussed in them (parents should also complete the verse with an answer).

She is kind, gentle,

Reputed to be an excellent hostess,

She's like a real treasure

With whom there is peace and harmony in the house!

Did you know who? What is easier -

After all, this is a loving ... - Mother-in-law!